Desires

Dear ones,
Every human life is bounded by the desires. All minds are blocked and chained by the desires.Desires changes according to time and space.Our current desires is different from the desires we had 10 years ago. But they always accompany us the whole life. One get satisfied, then the other arises. Sadness ,anxiety and tension are the byproduct of the desires. One cannot stop it since they come involuntary.When a new desire arises ,we will go behind it until it get satisfied. If a wish is fulfilled, then that is the end of that particular wish. But no escape, the other one comes.It will continue until death.

             Some wishes will follow you after death also.In the next birth the basic instinct of the previous birth dominates.During the purification process of the soul, all wishes will be fulfilled. We can not reach the supreme holding a wish in mind. If you have a wish to become a very rich person, it will be fulfilled. May be in this birth or the coming births. But desires delay our path to supreme. Some desire will take the whole life to fulfill. A person with no desire will reach Brahmam with less effort but  a man with lots of desires  will reach god after passing so many births.

             How can we stop the desires and wish? It is the question that need a complete solution. Stopping a wish forcefully will not remove that from mind. But the fulfillment of wishes removes it. When you are in fasting during the prayer time, your mind wishes to have a chicken burger what will you do? You know it is not the appropriate time to have the non vegetarian food .You will not take it. But the thought remains there all the prayer time and you will get irritated. Go and have it. Then do the pooja. Keeping these kind of thoughts and doing a pooja mechanically is of no use.Accept all you desires and let it go by fulfillment.

             Yogis and sages have control over the desires. They practice yoga. Yoga helps in coordination between mind and the body.Meditation gives you control over your mind.If you practice it, gradually desires will disappear.It will not happen in one day. It will take long time. Then be in love with god. Let your desire be God. Feel him each second. Surrender all your desire to God. He will make it vanish by time. Let your focus only on god and your only desire be the communion with him. He will hold you and free you from all desires.When we surrender everything to god, we feel only things are less important than your attention to the Supreme.

god bless you